September 11 and 12
Well, the doctor ordered me home after Randy’s transplant surgery, so I went home, ate everything I could find, and went to bed. I slept all night, and most of the next day, and all last night. I had no idea how exhausted I was. I was completely out of energy. I think every single cell, every muscle, every sinew in my body was coiled as tightly as a spring….the spring is relaxing now…. Sleep has helped, really helped.
So here I am at the hospital. Randy’s eyes actually see…they look alert, and I know he is more aware than he has been for almost two weeks. I cannot believe it, it is truly a miracle. The docs and nurses are all smiles….and so am I. I can’t wait for the tube to be out. That will be a huge step forward. There is no way to tell how long he will be in ICU, in the hospital, or in rehab….I think Randy will get back on his feet much quicker than they expect, but we’ll see.
As Randy was back in the ICU after surgery, I saw my waiting room “mate”, Mary, and her daughters coming out of her husband’s room, crying. He is gone. He woke 4 days ago and spoke to them, on the 10th, he slipped away. He was 71, had a lung transplant last year, his kidneys failed, his heart was failing, and he’s been in the hospital for 5 months. My heart goes out to Mary and her family….I hope their friends and family will succor them and give them strength.
Poor Randy was very frustrated today….awake, somewhat alert, still on the breathing tube although he is breathing room air and on his own. He wanted to tell me something….he can barely lift his hands up off the bed (but made progress all day long), and he is lifting his legs. We went through the alphabet, tried to let him write, but his dexterity is just not there yet. Wes came in this afternoon and we continued trying to figure out what he wanted. We are still unsure, but told him when he is off the tube tomorrow we’ll work on it again. Hopefully that will be tomorrow.
It is amazing and miraculous to watch him breathe. It seems so ….normal. It was difficult to watch his muscles contract so much when he was breathing before the surgery…he was working so hard. I still cannot get over this miracle: Randy has new lungs. I hope the donor and family realize our gratitude and how we bless them.
Thank you to Jane, to Brad, and to Allison and Donna! You have lifted my spirits, and I thank you for your generosity.
We are all filled with joy and hope now! I’ll keep you updated…tomorrow will hopefully see the end of the breathing tube!
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