In many ways, I cannot believe I am a mother. These tiny creatures arrive, and all of the sudden you are responsible for a human life. It can be overwhelming, but there is no doubt that being their mother was the most important thing I have ever done.
My little Wessie
They grow up, and that is both exhilarating and frightening. Randy and I were never parents who said, “I can’t wait for them to leave and go to college.” We would have been happy if they’d stayed teens, or preteens, it was, to quote David Copperfield, the best of times and the worst of times.
Randy’s illness was the most challenging part of our lives…we will celebrate his 3 year double lung transplant anniversary in September 2016! And our family has grown, we have a new daughter in law and a new son in law…not to mention all of the canine and feline “grandanimals”! And, we have now been blessed with two beautiful grandchildren.
I am happy to see them grown up and starting lives of their own. It is as it should be. I have to confess, though, that I miss the noisy house, the chaos of having kids all over the place, the scent of baby powder, and the laughter of a baby. I used to think my parents were crazy when they talked about how fast it went…but I understand now. It seems that it went too fast, but I savored my time with them, and those memories will always be there.
The days of receiving dandelions and homemade cards are over for me, but my children will have that experience at some point in their lives, and that makes me happy. I hope they enjoy their children as much as I enjoyed them. Other mothers will know what I mean when I say these two young adult children of mine carry my heart with them always.
How sentimental I have become! I’m almost in tears. It’s time to get up and shake it off! But before I do, I want to share a poem that I read when my kids were little, and the last lines of it linger in memory…I took the advice from this poem and I am so grateful I did. It has made all the difference.
Where is the mother whose house is so shocking?
She’s up in the nursery, blissfully rocking.
The cleaning and scrubbing can wait till tomorrow
Because children grow up as I’ve learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down cobwebs; Dust go to sleep!
I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep.
by Ruth Hulburt Hamilton
Love this! Being a Mom is a fantastic trip of a lifetime. There is always an adventure awaiting us!
Ain’t it the truth?
What great pictures! Isn’t wonderful when you can take your kids traveling? It opens up the world to them and changes their whole outlook on life. My kids are constantly going somewhere exciting.
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It’s important in many ways, I agree. I am traveling like crazy!
Beautifully written as well as a beautiful family. You must be very proud at how they turned out. Then come the grandchildren and a whole other world!
I am…I surprised myself and did a pretty good job!
I understand totally the sentiments Tam
And now my babies have babies … And although it’s not the same it is quite wonderful to have all these memories come back and watch my children enjoyed the same Joys as I did with them❤️
I am sure it is! Little Royce is a miracle baby!
And then then grandbabies come and there’s the smell of baby powder again. And it all starts over . . .
My cousin has her first grandbaby, and I flew up to see her…talk about nostalgia!
I kinda used to wish I’d had a second, but with college and grad school costs still demanding a bit of help and an upcoming wedding that we are giving our little girl, well, I’m glad she has her half sister. You are so right when you are blissful about progeny being together. Warms a mother’s heart, but… they so need each other not to be alone with childhood memories later in life.
Yes, it is always wonderful to have someone who has been there with you…my brother and I have a shorthand!
what a coincidence to have written about very similar things on the same day! Your family looks lovely – and are very blessed to have traveled as far and wide as they have done with you.
Travel has been an important part of our lives, that is for sure!
Beautiful, love seeing all the photos of the many adventures and how they grew up traveling. It does make you teary when you see how quickly they grow up!
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Yes, it sure does.